May 6, 2025
There’s a quiet shift many women experience in midlife and beyond. It’s not marked by a date or sudden event—it’s gradual, disorienting, and hard to name.
Yes, there are the physical symptoms of menopause: hot flashes, disrupted sleep, hormonal changes. But the emotional shifts often take women by surprise. A creeping sense of disconnection. A feeling that you’re not quite yourself anymore, but not yet someone new.
And perhaps most painfully, it’s the sense that the world has stopped looking your way. That your value is no longer assumed. Some women describe it as fading into the background. Others feel a sudden invisibility. There’s grief—for the roles they’ve outgrown or the dreams that didn’t unfold.
But something else stirs too: clarity.
In the quiet, when the noise of everyone else’s needs fades, many women begin to hear their own voice again. Sometimes for the first time in decades. They begin to ask: What do I want now? What do I need? Who am I becoming?
In therapy, this is where the work begins. Women arrive tired or emotionally foggy. But with time, confidence rises. Boundaries strengthen. Joy returns. The shame and confusion surrounding menopause begin to loosen their grip.
This is not the end. It’s an invitation—to come home to yourself, to reimagine your life, and to decide, maybe for the first time, that your wellbeing matters too.
Many women in their 50s, 60s, and 70s describe feeling overlooked, both medically and emotionally. They may struggle with:
Therapy offers a space to talk about all of it. No filters. No shame. Just room to explore your story, your truth, and your next chapter.
Let’s be clear: aging is not a decline. It is a transition. And like any transition, it requires care, attention, and support.
The truth is, this season of life can be a time of powerful growth. In therapy, I’ve watched women:
The cultural message may be that women over 50 should step back. That you should quiet down, make space for others, accept discomfort as normal, and gracefully fade into the background. But I believe this is the exact moment you are meant to step more fully in. Into your body—not as it once was, but as it is now, still worthy of care, pleasure, and reverence. Into your power—not the external kind that chases approval, but the deep, internal knowing that comes from having lived and lost and learned. Into your own life—not as a supporting character, but as the central one. You’ve spent years holding others up. Now is the time to return to yourself—not in rebellion, but in reclamation. This is not the beginning of the end. It is the beginning of something truer, freer, and entirely your own.
If you’re navigating menopause, postmenopause, or simply feeling the weight of a new life stage, know this: you are not invisible. You are becoming more of yourself. And that is something worth honoring.
Therapy can help you move through this transition with intention, clarity, and strength. It’s never too late to feel like yourself again—or maybe for the first time.
In therapy, there is space to unpack the layers—grief over a changing body, resentment over decades of caretaking, pride in surviving what you have, and curiosity about what’s still ahead. Whether you’re carrying unspoken sadness, craving new forms of connection, or simply longing to be seen again, your experience matters. This work isn’t about “fixing” what’s wrong. It’s about honoring what’s real, reclaiming what’s yours, and discovering who you are when no one else is scripting your role.
I specialize in therapy for women navigating menopause, identity shifts, grief, and aging with purpose. If you’re ready to explore this next chapter with support, I’m here.
Laurie is a Licensed Professional Counselor with her Masters of Science in Counseling from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX. She is also a graduate of McGill University in Montreal. She received advanced practical training in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples and families at UT Southwestern, where she spent five years in the Department of Psychiatry’s Family Studies Clinic working with diverse clients of all ages. In addition, she has completed training in Collaborative Law for couples seeking divorce to find solutions in a more amicable way.
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